Showing posts with label Singapore. Show all posts
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Wednesday, March 4, 2015

My Circumnavigation of the World

MY CIRCUMNAVIGATION OF THE WORLD


All-consuming fear

          The first leg of my circumnavigation of the world was indeed the very first time I had flown alone. I was to go to Singapore for a two-year volunteer mission for my church. I’d be stopping for three weeks at Salt Lake City for training. It would take three flights to reach Salt Lake, during which, I would have to find my way around three foreign airports. Alone. Admittedly, I was a terrified 19-year-old. I said goodbye to my family and departed from Birmingham International Airport on an American Airlines jet with a tear in my eye as I looked out of my seat window to the airport, realizing I would not see my mum again for two years.



Here I am with my family at Birmingham International Airport, moments before I said goodbye


          The only memory I have of this particular journey was that the plane was less than half full. An air stewardess told me that I could take a whole row of seats for myself and enjoy the flight. But the fear of arriving alone at a foreign airport was all-consuming.




Terribly intimidated

          The memory of landing at Chicago O’Hare International Airport is extremely thin. What I do recollect is feeling awfully lost and terribly intimidated at the immigration counters. I hadn’t filled in the entry card correctly and had left a number of details blank. The officer bluntly ordered me away to complete the form as police all dressed up for war stared me down. I was a complete newbie and I was under a lot of pressure.
          Of course, this was USA in June 2002, just nine months on from the 9/11 terror attacks, so airports were on red alert and I was treated just like every other traveller – guilty until I had been mentally interrogated, body and bags had been scanned and searched, and all had been declared safe – or so it seemed. But given the new wave of terror freshly dusted in the USA, I couldn’t blame them.
          I eventually got through immigration, and so deep were the impressions on my mind, I could barely concentrate to read my boarding pass correctly. I momentarily panicked when I thought I was lost, but after asking around, I found people to be quite helpful. I was in good time for my next flight.




Three back-to-back flights

          It had been a beautiful day in America since I entered its airspace from high above the Atlantic Ocean. I was slightly more confident that I could find my way through Dallas Fort Worth after touching down in Texas from Chicago. Making sure that I was on time for three back-to-back flights in the same day occupied all of my attention, so my memory of the small things has regrettably faded. I’m sure I called home in Chicago to tell my mum I was fine and had landed safely in America. As for Dallas Fort Worth, things moved by quickly and I was soon on the plane again, this time to Salt Lake City, my destination for the next three weeks.




Indescribable relief

          I touched down safely in Salt Lake City and praised the Lord. Three flights had taken me from England, across the Atlantic and almost the entire land mass of the United States of America. Eight time zones in all. It was now night time and nearing the end of a very long and tiring day.
          Now, I was supposed to be met by a friend, Nate, at SLC airport. I had met all my scheduled flights and collected my luggage. Then I waited where I thought we were supposed to meet. Ten minutes passed with no sign of Nate. I began to grow worried. I went to a nearby payphone and called my mum in England. I must have sounded desperate by this time! She told me she’d try and contact Nate to check where he is. I suddenly felt homeless and helpless in a foreign country. There I was standing in an airport over 8,000km away from home with two large suitcases wondering where I was going to sleep that night. Waiting for a pick-up may seem a trivial matter, but to this nineteen-year-old jetting the globe in solitary company, it was a matter of life and death. Well, my despair was short-lived because Nate soon arrived apologizing for being late. My relief was indescribable. I had completed my lonely journey from Birmingham, England to Salt Lake City, USA on a lengthy Tuesday 18th June, 2002.





Horrific howling

          The night of Tuesday 18th June, 2002 was spent at Nate’s house. 

Here I am checking in at the Provo Missionary Training Centre (MTC) the following afternoon. I look so young and inexperienced


My circumnavigation of the globe would continue just under 3 weeks later. 


Here’s another picture of me shortly before leaving the MTC. A friend and I point to the next point of embarkation on our journey, the fantastic island city of Singapore


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          On Monday 8th July, 2002, after nineteen days of training in Provo, I resumed my adventure with several fellow-volunteers. It sure was a whole lot more exciting and reassuring to finally be flying in the company of some friends. We took the short flight from Salt Lake City to San Francisco, a major airport with a 3km-long runway, standing as the hub for huge trans-Pacific air voyages.
        

  An aerial view of San Francisco’s main airport


          From there we flew on a United Airlines plane to Hong Kong. There was an extremely scary moment somewhere over the Pacific Ocean when we encountered some severe turbulence. The plane was rolling left and right, each wing in turn being forced up at 45 degree angles. Matthew Lee, sitting beside me, spilt his orange juice all over his trousers during the commotion. It would have been funny but for the horrific howling and wailing of a Chinese-looking lady in the window row beside us. A male companion was trying to calm her down but to no avail. It was like a scene from a movie, but fortunately this lady’s screams were an isolated case. After a few minutes of wild turbulence, the pilot made an obvious right turn and an increase in altitude as the cries ceased and normal service was resumed.
          It is difficult to catch up with the pilots who navigate our flights. I have managed it just once in my life. I would have liked to have thanked the pilot who skillfully controlled my flight to Hong Kong.
         

 The typical flight path from San Francisco to Hong Kong




Immediately felt at home

          Matthew, my friend who unfortunately spilt orange juice down his trousers 40,000 feet above the Pacific Ocean, was having more problems at Hong Kong International Airport. He discovered that he had given in his boarding pass to Singapore at San Francisco, so he and Jacob Brown had to go off and explain the situation. We spent the next half an hour looking for them around the airport only to find that they had already checked in and were waiting for us.


Here I am at Hong Kong International Airport:



          The Hong Kong to Singapore flight was turbulent in patches but not to the extent of our trans-Pacific experience. Furthermore, this was the last leg of my circumnavigation of the world for around two years.
          

An aerial view of Singapore’s Changi airport


          Arriving at Changi airport represented the half-way mark. We got through immigration at Changi at around 1am local time on Wednesday 10th July, 2002. I remember the balmy heat hitting me like a brick wall when the doors to the night air opened. Warm at the dead of night! We were tired and groggy when our Mission President, Joseph Flake Boone, greeted us in the arrivals hall. He was dressed in a shirt and tie with immaculately kept hair and had the warmest smile, welcoming yet conservative, and I immediately felt right at home on the other side of the planet – for the first time since I left England in June.
          We were soon taken to our accommodation for the night. I was to spend the next two years in volunteer service briefly in Singapore, and more prominently in Peninsular Malaysia and Borneo. The adventures, stories, heartaches, joys and personal growth I experienced in those two years filled four volumes.

          
A map of my home for two years in South-east Asia


         

 Some of my friends who travelled with me from Salt Lake City to Singapore. L-R: Jacob Brown, Neal Solomon, Me, Micheal Hubbard, Matthew Lee:



Leaving my Asian home

          The two halves of my round-the-world journey were the slices of bread that held the much larger filling of two years of volunteer service to the people of Malaysia and Singapore. The sandwich wouldn’t be of any nutrition without that filling, and suffice it to say, it was delicious beyond anything I had ever tasted.
Three friends accompanied me to Singapore’s Changi airport on the night of Wednesday 23rd June, 2004. If I could, I would have gladly quit my circumnavigation of the world right there in Singapore. Two years since arriving in South-east Asia, I did not want to leave because I had fallen in love with the place, the people, the food, everything. Malaysia and Singapore had captured my heart and I had never felt more at home than where I was right then. I had gained a whole new circle of beautiful friends in Petaling Jaya, Klang, Ipoh, Sitiawan, Kuching (all Malaysia) and Singapore.
          Two years ago, as I left England for America, I was filled with a fear of flying alone into the unknown. But it was even harder leaving my Asian home on this particular night.
          My friends and I had a Burger King meal at the airport and took photos together before my departure. It was the first time in my life that I didn’t enjoy a Burger King. There was just an empty feeling deep down in the pit of my stomach, more mental and emotional than physical, and it ached. It ached and ached. It was similar to the butterflies in the stomach associated with nervousness; slightly nauseous would be the best way to describe it.

          

With a couple of friends shortly before my departure from Changi airport, Singapore: (L-R: Micheal Hubbard, Me, Jake Claus)

         
I had accumulated a lot of stuff during my stint in Asia and I was 30kg overweight in baggage. The airport was ready to charge me 1,635 Singapore dollars! It was fortunate that I had already planned a trip back to Singapore the following month with my family, so I was able to leave one suitcase with my friend in Singapore and collect it the next month. That was definitely a moment where I was thankful to have good friends around and a family who had planned to come and see my Asian home. A wonderful piece of good fortune, as many of my fellow-volunteers have never returned to this part of the world.
          So I rearranged my suitcases right there in the airport and put all the important stuff in the one I was taking with me.
          When I reached the gate for departure, I saw my plane waiting outside. Qantas Airlines. An absolute beast! What a sight! The flight was slightly delayed so by the time of departure, it was already after midnight. That would have consequences for the final leg of my journey. The take-off was so smooth that I couldn’t feel it leaving the runway – the same could be said of the landing in Frankfurt, Germany twelve hours later. The smoothness of the flight and the pleasant company of the many Germans on board unfortunately didn’t match my desire to be on it.




My heart was left behind

Frankfurt airport in Germany was the most difficult airport to get around that I experienced on my circumnavigation of the globe. With no signage in English, it required asking people/airport staff for directions. My delayed flight from Singapore had landed at 7am local time and given me just 30 minutes until my connecting flight departed. There was no way I was going to make it!



An aerial view of Frankfurt airport in Germany


I managed to rearrange my journey back to England for the next flight at 11am. It gave me plenty of time to find my way around the German labyrinth. I also called Birmingham International Airport and left a message for my mum, Joanna, who would be waiting there wondering why I wasn’t on my scheduled flight.
I did bump into a lovely family from Montana at Frankfurt airport (see picture below) and discovered that we belonged to the same church, albeit in different countries. It’s nice when that happens!



We had to walk from our departure gate to the airplane – myself and around two dozen others. The walk seemed endless. Finally we arrived at a tiny propeller plane and my heart sank.
          My head was at an angle as I squeezed into the cabin in my seat. A little cramped for my liking but it was going to get me home. During the ascent I could dizzyingly feel the plane moving up through all the altitude levels which made my head throb each time. The air stewardess asked me if I wanted an orange juice. Afraid of bringing it straight back up, I politely passed!
          After a short flight I touched down where I started two years ago – Birmingham International Airport. I was genuinely happy to see my mum again, yet I was also authentically dejected to be in England. It was one of the weirdest feelings I’ve ever experienced. To have spent two years in the exclusive service of others and to have loved every minute of that time, then two flights later to have been stripped bare of all the beautiful duties of that work was a pill that I was trying to swallow but having trouble getting it down my throat. I didn’t know whether to smile or sob. I think I ended up doing something rather boring in between.
         

The cold chill when alighting the small British Airways propeller plane was a harsh reminder that the warm tropical climate I had so loved was now a world away, and I have to report that during my circumnavigation of the world, my heart was left behind in South-east Asia.


Saturday, October 27, 2012

Blog Flashbacks Saturday (Oct 27th, 2012)

Welcome to another addition of Blog Flashbacks Saturday. I do hope your weekend has started out well. Here are a few articles from my blog archives which I hope will brighten your day a little further:


On this weekend last year I shared some images of Kuching from our trip to my wife's hometown on the island of Borneo. We had a great time and saw some interesting sights, including this totem pole at the museum. Click the above link to view those photos.









Around this date two years ago I posted about a visit to Singapore, the fabulous city-island to the immediate south of Malaysia. I used to visit Singapore often before I got my visa issues settled. Here is a beautiful image of the Marina Bay area of Singapore. For more great photos, click here: Marina Bay, Singapore photos




In October 2009 I went to see a lovely gallery of photos at East Coast Mall of the Sultan of Pahang, which were displayed in conjunction with his birthday. To browse more of these fascinating pictures, just click the link above.




Let me know which flashback you enjoyed most!



Wednesday, September 12, 2012

My Journey to Kuantan - Part 3 - Missing Malaysia

If you missed earlier parts of the story, you can catch up by clicking these links:




Upon returning to England from my 2-year volunteer service, I went through a short period of depression.

Such was the extent to which I had fallen in love with Malaysia and Singapore and its people, that I just couldn't live without it.

I remember stepping off the small propeller plane which had carried me from Frankfurt to Birmingham, and feeling the sheer and utter cold in stark contrast to the warm, tropical conditions of Asia I had become so accustomed to.

It was horrible.

And it was NOT good to be "back."

I sat at home doing nothing. Constantly thinking of my friends in Malaysia, of the myriad great experiences, of the emptiness I now felt in England.

I feel sorry for my mum. She missed me immensely for 2 years, but during that time I had changed to a different person and found a completely new home.

From that moment on, England was just never going to be enough for me.

So in July 2004 I swiftly returned to Malaysia and Singapore and brought my whole family along with me. Seeing my beautiful friends again so soon, and introducing them to my family was a wonderful time!


At Sunway Pyramid, Subang Jaya, West Malaysia


On the skybridge at Petronas Twin Towers, Kuala Lumpur


Meeting friends in Kuala Lumpur













Friends in Ipoh, West Malaysia









At the Sarawak Cultural Village, Kuching, East Malaysia


At my favourite restaurant, Fu Bin Seafood Restaurant, with the staff, in Kuching


With Florianna and Florina, who would later become my sisters-in-law!












Between September 2004 and May 2005 I began working in England. This was a welcome relief because it kept me busy and I was able to earn some money.

I also spent time hanging out with my friends whenever I could.


Met with a fellow volunteer in Malaysia who served with me. Took my best friend with me to Manchester to meet her



Meeting people became interesting as conversations always turned to Malaysia and Singapore and my adventures there.


Met some new friends on a trip to London. It was cold!!





In May 2005 I stopped working and embarked on a second holiday 'back home' to Malaysia, this time for 3 months. 

The truth is, I never stopped missing the Far East...

And that's where the most vital part of my journey to Kuantan occurs!


Stay tuned to find out tomorrow!


Tuesday, September 11, 2012

My Journey to Kuantan - Part 2 - Serving As A Volunteer

This week I'm recounting my journey to Kuantan. If you missed Part 1, do click this link to read 



I finished my formal education at English Martyrs Roman Catholic high school with 1 A, 6 Bs and 3 Cs. I was pleasantly surprised and quite ecstatic with these results since all of my school years were spent in the love of sports. Quite frankly, English aside, I felt no interest sitting in a classroom.

My passion was competing on a tennis court and a football pitch, where I enjoyed huge success with my church team from the years of 1994-2002. We played against other teams from churches in the area, and I can tell you those battles were serious and anything but holy! It fired me up and I developed a love of winning.

All through my teenage years I knew that when I reached 19 years old, I would go and serve as a full-time volunteer for my church. This would last for 2 years. It would mean leaving behind my family and friends (and beloved sports!), to go and do something for somebody else.

The only fuzzy detail was where exactly in the world I would be asked to perform my volunteer work!

On 19 March, 2002, I received a letter from the church headquarters that would change the direction of my life forever.



I had been chosen to serve in Singapore and Malaysia!

I remember excitedly pulling out the atlas and raiding Google to find out where these countries were!


This was my name tag which I wore in some parts of my volunteer service


So for two years, from June 2002 - June 2004, I served as a missionary for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in a most fantastic part of the world. I worked in various places around Singapore and Malaysia.

I have filled over 600 pages of my personal record detailing these two years. Suffice it to say they were the best two years of my life.

Now I'll share just a few of the many photos from this period in my life:


During our volunteer service, there were certain standards of appearance, conduct and organization we were expected to show. This is a typical 'blue planner' we used to plan our activities each week:


At Hong Kong airport en route to Singapore to begin my volunteer service (9th July, 2002)


Celebrating Chinese New Year in Petaling Jaya (PJ), West Malaysia, with some good friends from China (2003)


On a crowded bus going to the beach in Kuching (2003)


While I was serving in Kuching, East Malaysia I met this lovely family - Brother Michael, with two of his daughters, Florina (L) and Florianna (R). He had three other daughters; Felicia was studying in Johor, Felicity was at school in Genting, and Fidelia, who would later become my wife, was studying at Labuan. (2003)

Being sent to Kuching and meeting Fidelia's family was a huge part of my journey to Kuantan, even though I didn't know it at the time!


Meeting for dinner with church members in a small wooden house in Kuching, East Malaysia (2003)


Having a meeting with fellow volunteers on the balcony of the church in Kuching, East Malaysia (late 2003/early 2004)


Visiting a fruit farm in Kuching, East Malaysia (2004)


Two of the cutest little girls I met on my mission, Sitiawan, West Malaysia (2004)


Meeting with fellow volunteers in Ipoh, West Malaysia (2004)


Riding the MRT in Singapore one last time before my two-year volunteer contract expired and I'd head back home to England (June 2004)


With Elder Hubbard and Elder Claus at Changi International Airport, Singapore. Awaiting my flight home with a great deal of sadness (23 June, 2004)


My two-year volunteer mission was pivotal in my journey to Kuantan. I got to know and love the country of Malaysia, and I became good friends with Fidelia's family in Kuching!


Please visit this link for all you need to know about my church's volunteer missionary service program and how it works.


Stay tuned for Part 3 tomorrow!