Showing posts with label Salt Lake City. Show all posts
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Wednesday, March 4, 2015

My Circumnavigation of the World

MY CIRCUMNAVIGATION OF THE WORLD


All-consuming fear

          The first leg of my circumnavigation of the world was indeed the very first time I had flown alone. I was to go to Singapore for a two-year volunteer mission for my church. I’d be stopping for three weeks at Salt Lake City for training. It would take three flights to reach Salt Lake, during which, I would have to find my way around three foreign airports. Alone. Admittedly, I was a terrified 19-year-old. I said goodbye to my family and departed from Birmingham International Airport on an American Airlines jet with a tear in my eye as I looked out of my seat window to the airport, realizing I would not see my mum again for two years.



Here I am with my family at Birmingham International Airport, moments before I said goodbye


          The only memory I have of this particular journey was that the plane was less than half full. An air stewardess told me that I could take a whole row of seats for myself and enjoy the flight. But the fear of arriving alone at a foreign airport was all-consuming.




Terribly intimidated

          The memory of landing at Chicago O’Hare International Airport is extremely thin. What I do recollect is feeling awfully lost and terribly intimidated at the immigration counters. I hadn’t filled in the entry card correctly and had left a number of details blank. The officer bluntly ordered me away to complete the form as police all dressed up for war stared me down. I was a complete newbie and I was under a lot of pressure.
          Of course, this was USA in June 2002, just nine months on from the 9/11 terror attacks, so airports were on red alert and I was treated just like every other traveller – guilty until I had been mentally interrogated, body and bags had been scanned and searched, and all had been declared safe – or so it seemed. But given the new wave of terror freshly dusted in the USA, I couldn’t blame them.
          I eventually got through immigration, and so deep were the impressions on my mind, I could barely concentrate to read my boarding pass correctly. I momentarily panicked when I thought I was lost, but after asking around, I found people to be quite helpful. I was in good time for my next flight.




Three back-to-back flights

          It had been a beautiful day in America since I entered its airspace from high above the Atlantic Ocean. I was slightly more confident that I could find my way through Dallas Fort Worth after touching down in Texas from Chicago. Making sure that I was on time for three back-to-back flights in the same day occupied all of my attention, so my memory of the small things has regrettably faded. I’m sure I called home in Chicago to tell my mum I was fine and had landed safely in America. As for Dallas Fort Worth, things moved by quickly and I was soon on the plane again, this time to Salt Lake City, my destination for the next three weeks.




Indescribable relief

          I touched down safely in Salt Lake City and praised the Lord. Three flights had taken me from England, across the Atlantic and almost the entire land mass of the United States of America. Eight time zones in all. It was now night time and nearing the end of a very long and tiring day.
          Now, I was supposed to be met by a friend, Nate, at SLC airport. I had met all my scheduled flights and collected my luggage. Then I waited where I thought we were supposed to meet. Ten minutes passed with no sign of Nate. I began to grow worried. I went to a nearby payphone and called my mum in England. I must have sounded desperate by this time! She told me she’d try and contact Nate to check where he is. I suddenly felt homeless and helpless in a foreign country. There I was standing in an airport over 8,000km away from home with two large suitcases wondering where I was going to sleep that night. Waiting for a pick-up may seem a trivial matter, but to this nineteen-year-old jetting the globe in solitary company, it was a matter of life and death. Well, my despair was short-lived because Nate soon arrived apologizing for being late. My relief was indescribable. I had completed my lonely journey from Birmingham, England to Salt Lake City, USA on a lengthy Tuesday 18th June, 2002.





Horrific howling

          The night of Tuesday 18th June, 2002 was spent at Nate’s house. 

Here I am checking in at the Provo Missionary Training Centre (MTC) the following afternoon. I look so young and inexperienced


My circumnavigation of the globe would continue just under 3 weeks later. 


Here’s another picture of me shortly before leaving the MTC. A friend and I point to the next point of embarkation on our journey, the fantastic island city of Singapore


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          On Monday 8th July, 2002, after nineteen days of training in Provo, I resumed my adventure with several fellow-volunteers. It sure was a whole lot more exciting and reassuring to finally be flying in the company of some friends. We took the short flight from Salt Lake City to San Francisco, a major airport with a 3km-long runway, standing as the hub for huge trans-Pacific air voyages.
        

  An aerial view of San Francisco’s main airport


          From there we flew on a United Airlines plane to Hong Kong. There was an extremely scary moment somewhere over the Pacific Ocean when we encountered some severe turbulence. The plane was rolling left and right, each wing in turn being forced up at 45 degree angles. Matthew Lee, sitting beside me, spilt his orange juice all over his trousers during the commotion. It would have been funny but for the horrific howling and wailing of a Chinese-looking lady in the window row beside us. A male companion was trying to calm her down but to no avail. It was like a scene from a movie, but fortunately this lady’s screams were an isolated case. After a few minutes of wild turbulence, the pilot made an obvious right turn and an increase in altitude as the cries ceased and normal service was resumed.
          It is difficult to catch up with the pilots who navigate our flights. I have managed it just once in my life. I would have liked to have thanked the pilot who skillfully controlled my flight to Hong Kong.
         

 The typical flight path from San Francisco to Hong Kong




Immediately felt at home

          Matthew, my friend who unfortunately spilt orange juice down his trousers 40,000 feet above the Pacific Ocean, was having more problems at Hong Kong International Airport. He discovered that he had given in his boarding pass to Singapore at San Francisco, so he and Jacob Brown had to go off and explain the situation. We spent the next half an hour looking for them around the airport only to find that they had already checked in and were waiting for us.


Here I am at Hong Kong International Airport:



          The Hong Kong to Singapore flight was turbulent in patches but not to the extent of our trans-Pacific experience. Furthermore, this was the last leg of my circumnavigation of the world for around two years.
          

An aerial view of Singapore’s Changi airport


          Arriving at Changi airport represented the half-way mark. We got through immigration at Changi at around 1am local time on Wednesday 10th July, 2002. I remember the balmy heat hitting me like a brick wall when the doors to the night air opened. Warm at the dead of night! We were tired and groggy when our Mission President, Joseph Flake Boone, greeted us in the arrivals hall. He was dressed in a shirt and tie with immaculately kept hair and had the warmest smile, welcoming yet conservative, and I immediately felt right at home on the other side of the planet – for the first time since I left England in June.
          We were soon taken to our accommodation for the night. I was to spend the next two years in volunteer service briefly in Singapore, and more prominently in Peninsular Malaysia and Borneo. The adventures, stories, heartaches, joys and personal growth I experienced in those two years filled four volumes.

          
A map of my home for two years in South-east Asia


         

 Some of my friends who travelled with me from Salt Lake City to Singapore. L-R: Jacob Brown, Neal Solomon, Me, Micheal Hubbard, Matthew Lee:



Leaving my Asian home

          The two halves of my round-the-world journey were the slices of bread that held the much larger filling of two years of volunteer service to the people of Malaysia and Singapore. The sandwich wouldn’t be of any nutrition without that filling, and suffice it to say, it was delicious beyond anything I had ever tasted.
Three friends accompanied me to Singapore’s Changi airport on the night of Wednesday 23rd June, 2004. If I could, I would have gladly quit my circumnavigation of the world right there in Singapore. Two years since arriving in South-east Asia, I did not want to leave because I had fallen in love with the place, the people, the food, everything. Malaysia and Singapore had captured my heart and I had never felt more at home than where I was right then. I had gained a whole new circle of beautiful friends in Petaling Jaya, Klang, Ipoh, Sitiawan, Kuching (all Malaysia) and Singapore.
          Two years ago, as I left England for America, I was filled with a fear of flying alone into the unknown. But it was even harder leaving my Asian home on this particular night.
          My friends and I had a Burger King meal at the airport and took photos together before my departure. It was the first time in my life that I didn’t enjoy a Burger King. There was just an empty feeling deep down in the pit of my stomach, more mental and emotional than physical, and it ached. It ached and ached. It was similar to the butterflies in the stomach associated with nervousness; slightly nauseous would be the best way to describe it.

          

With a couple of friends shortly before my departure from Changi airport, Singapore: (L-R: Micheal Hubbard, Me, Jake Claus)

         
I had accumulated a lot of stuff during my stint in Asia and I was 30kg overweight in baggage. The airport was ready to charge me 1,635 Singapore dollars! It was fortunate that I had already planned a trip back to Singapore the following month with my family, so I was able to leave one suitcase with my friend in Singapore and collect it the next month. That was definitely a moment where I was thankful to have good friends around and a family who had planned to come and see my Asian home. A wonderful piece of good fortune, as many of my fellow-volunteers have never returned to this part of the world.
          So I rearranged my suitcases right there in the airport and put all the important stuff in the one I was taking with me.
          When I reached the gate for departure, I saw my plane waiting outside. Qantas Airlines. An absolute beast! What a sight! The flight was slightly delayed so by the time of departure, it was already after midnight. That would have consequences for the final leg of my journey. The take-off was so smooth that I couldn’t feel it leaving the runway – the same could be said of the landing in Frankfurt, Germany twelve hours later. The smoothness of the flight and the pleasant company of the many Germans on board unfortunately didn’t match my desire to be on it.




My heart was left behind

Frankfurt airport in Germany was the most difficult airport to get around that I experienced on my circumnavigation of the globe. With no signage in English, it required asking people/airport staff for directions. My delayed flight from Singapore had landed at 7am local time and given me just 30 minutes until my connecting flight departed. There was no way I was going to make it!



An aerial view of Frankfurt airport in Germany


I managed to rearrange my journey back to England for the next flight at 11am. It gave me plenty of time to find my way around the German labyrinth. I also called Birmingham International Airport and left a message for my mum, Joanna, who would be waiting there wondering why I wasn’t on my scheduled flight.
I did bump into a lovely family from Montana at Frankfurt airport (see picture below) and discovered that we belonged to the same church, albeit in different countries. It’s nice when that happens!



We had to walk from our departure gate to the airplane – myself and around two dozen others. The walk seemed endless. Finally we arrived at a tiny propeller plane and my heart sank.
          My head was at an angle as I squeezed into the cabin in my seat. A little cramped for my liking but it was going to get me home. During the ascent I could dizzyingly feel the plane moving up through all the altitude levels which made my head throb each time. The air stewardess asked me if I wanted an orange juice. Afraid of bringing it straight back up, I politely passed!
          After a short flight I touched down where I started two years ago – Birmingham International Airport. I was genuinely happy to see my mum again, yet I was also authentically dejected to be in England. It was one of the weirdest feelings I’ve ever experienced. To have spent two years in the exclusive service of others and to have loved every minute of that time, then two flights later to have been stripped bare of all the beautiful duties of that work was a pill that I was trying to swallow but having trouble getting it down my throat. I didn’t know whether to smile or sob. I think I ended up doing something rather boring in between.
         

The cold chill when alighting the small British Airways propeller plane was a harsh reminder that the warm tropical climate I had so loved was now a world away, and I have to report that during my circumnavigation of the world, my heart was left behind in South-east Asia.


Wednesday, March 14, 2012

An Expat Life - or not?

Good day everyone and welcome to my post for today.

I received an email from a gentleman who runs an expat site named Internations who invited me to join the site and connect with other expats around Malaysia and the world. He had come across my blog and apparently loves it. So I signed up and filled in a questionnaire. There were 9 questions and I must admit that I really enjoyed answering the questions.

It reminded me of the very first time I ventured to the shores of Malaysia and Singapore back in 2002, how I settled down, overcame culture shock and eventually lived here like it had always been my home.


This is a picture of me and a friend taken in June 2002 in Salt Lake City, Utah, USA, shortly before embarking on a 2-year volunteer placement in Malaysia and Singapore. I was a fresh 19 years old, travelling without my family for the first time, going to a strange tropical country I had never heard of before.



In Klang, Malaysia with a very good friend I met there



Celebrating my birthday with local friends in Klang, Malaysia, October 2002.



On a packed bus full of local Sarawakians heading to the beach, Kuching, Malaysia, probably around February 2004.



At a local Malaysian's farm, Kuching, Malaysia, around February 2004.



Fully settled into life in Malaysia, at a food stall in Ipoh, Malaysia, around May 2004, a month before my 2-year volunteer service came to an end.



I thought I would share with you the questionnaire I filled out today, which brought back so many great memories from the last decade of my life, seeing this young English boy mature and grow into a man in South-East Asia.



Please tell us a little bit about yourself. Who you are, where you come from, when you moved to Malaysia, etc.
My name is Duncan Horne and I’m from Leicester, England. I first moved to Malaysia in June 2002 as a volunteer worker. That lasted for 2 years upon which I returned home to England. In May 2006 I moved back to Malaysia again, this time as a result of marrying a local Malaysian.

When and why did you decide to start blogging about your experiences?
I began a blog in 2009 originally to be the topic of Roger Federer – how quickly things change! My blog changed into a blog about Kuantan, my new hometown, and has found much success and a wide following as a result.

Do you have any favorite blog entries of yours (please insert URL as well)?
I have a number of favourite entries, particularly those about our stays at hotels and visiting tourist attractions here in Kuantan.

Our stay at Swiss garden Resort & Spa:

Our tour of The Zenith Hotel and interview with the GM:

Our stay at Vistana Hotel:

The fascinating Lao Zi dragon temple near Kuantan:

I really love this post documenting the Ten Thousand Buddhas Hall in Kuantan:

Always enjoy visiting this lovely scenic park in Kuantan:

Had an intriguing visit to Sungai Lembing:

Exploring the hidden charm of Kuantan old town:


Hindu temple in Kuantan:

All of the blog posts on this page:



Tell us about the ways your new life in Malaysia differs from that back home. Did you have trouble getting used to the new circumstances? Did you experience culture shock?
When I first moved to Malaysia back in 2002 I did have a bit of culture shock which lasted for a month or two. I found myself thinking about home and missing friends and family quite often. However, once I got to know the local people and settled into my work, things became a whole lot easier. The hot and humid weather was a big thing, as well as the wide array of Asian food on offer. I soon got used to dirty and smelly public toilets too. Anyway, I took the good with the bad and just really started enjoying living the Asian life. Life is much more laid back here in Malaysia, easy to get on with people and make good new friends, which was quite the opposite in England. The drinking culture of England brought a lot of pressure as I’m not a drinker, and that aspect is so much more comfortable and tolerable in Malaysia. Every day feels like a holiday here, and I wouldn’t give it up for the world.

Do you think you were fully prepared for what awaited you in Malaysia? If you could, would you change some decisions/preparations you made?
I think it’s impossible to be fully prepared for everything about a new life abroad. You can read endless books on a new country of residence, its food, people, economy and so on, but nothing beats experience! I think it’s important to go with a positive attitude and open mind, and realize that the way of life is not going to be like back home, then you will be able to settle a lot quicker and be more adaptable to change.

Every expat knows that expat life comes with some hilarious anecdotes and funny experiences. Care to share one with us?
My wife was taking driving lessons and one afternoon somebody from the driving school called. My wife was asleep so I took the call. Unfortunately the lady on the other end couldn’t speak English, so trying to be clever I attempted to tell her that my wife was sleeping. However, I didn’t realize that I was speaking in the Iban language, which my wife had been teaching me, and not Bahasa Melayu (the national language). So I was saying “Fidelia tinduk” (in Iban) getting myself confused with “tidur” (the word for sleep I should have been using!) So there was a lot of confusion before the call ended and I remember myself complaining, ”That woman can’t even talk her own language!” Not until I related the story to my wife did she inform me that it was I who was using the wrong language!

Which three tips would you like to give future expats before they embark on their new life in Malaysia?
1.      Approach the expat journey with an open mind
2.      Try to live the local way of life instead of your own ‘back home’ way of living
3.      Immerse yourself in the work you’re doing in Malaysia

How is the expat community in Malaysia? Did you have a hard time finding like-minded people or fellow expats?
I am a different type of expat to what is usually understood by the title “expat”. I didn’t move here together with my family like most expats do who move abroad for work purposes. My wife is actually a local Malaysian and I moved here to settle down with no money, no job, a complete fresh start in a town I had never knew existed. However, I am still living the expat life now, it’s just that I’ve gone through it in an entirely different set of circumstances. It was very tough at first but gradually I’ve settled down to normal life and have now met one or two fellow expats here too. It was pretty difficult locating other expats but I have made a friendship with one guy from the Netherlands, whom we see from time to time. However, it is with the local Malaysians whom I converse with the most. Sometimes I forget I was from England and really don’t think of myself as an expat. I thoroughly enjoy my life in Malaysia and I feel like I’ve never been anywhere else!

How would you summarize your expat life in Malaysia in a single, catchy sentence?
“Every day feels like a holiday!”



Hope you enjoyed that question and answer session with myself. I really sometimes wonder if I am an expat or not? I may have white skin but I certainly feel Malaysian. I feel at times as though I've been here all of my life. People ask me how long I'll stay here in Malaysia. My answer always is the same - 

"perhaps until the day I die."