MY CIRCUMNAVIGATION OF THE WORLD
All-consuming
fear
The first leg of my circumnavigation
of the world was indeed the very first time I had flown alone. I was to go to
Singapore for a two-year volunteer mission for my church. I’d be stopping for
three weeks at Salt Lake City for training. It would take three flights to
reach Salt Lake, during which, I would have to find my way around three foreign
airports. Alone. Admittedly, I was a terrified 19-year-old. I said goodbye to
my family and departed from Birmingham International Airport on an American
Airlines jet with a tear in my eye as I looked out of my seat window to the
airport, realizing I would not see my mum again for two years.
Here I am with my family at Birmingham International Airport, moments before I said goodbye |
The only memory I have of this
particular journey was that the plane was less than half full. An air
stewardess told me that I could take a whole row of seats for myself and enjoy
the flight. But the fear of arriving alone at a foreign airport was
all-consuming.
Terribly
intimidated
The memory of landing at Chicago
O’Hare International Airport is extremely thin. What I do recollect is feeling
awfully lost and terribly intimidated at the immigration counters. I hadn’t
filled in the entry card correctly and had left a number of details blank. The
officer bluntly ordered me away to complete the form as police all dressed up
for war stared me down. I was a complete newbie and I was under a lot of
pressure.
Of course, this was USA in June 2002,
just nine months on from the 9/11 terror attacks, so airports were on red alert
and I was treated just like every other traveller – guilty until I had been
mentally interrogated, body and bags had been scanned and searched, and all had
been declared safe – or so it seemed. But given the new wave of terror freshly
dusted in the USA, I couldn’t blame them.
I eventually got through immigration,
and so deep were the impressions on my mind, I could barely concentrate to read
my boarding pass correctly. I momentarily panicked when I thought I was lost,
but after asking around, I found people to be quite helpful. I was in good time
for my next flight.
Three
back-to-back flights
It had been a beautiful day in America
since I entered its airspace from high above the Atlantic Ocean. I was slightly
more confident that I could find my way through Dallas Fort Worth after
touching down in Texas from Chicago. Making sure that I was on time for three
back-to-back flights in the same day occupied all of my attention, so my memory
of the small things has regrettably faded. I’m sure I called home in Chicago to
tell my mum I was fine and had landed safely in America. As for Dallas Fort
Worth, things moved by quickly and I was soon on the plane again, this time to
Salt Lake City, my destination for the next three weeks.
Indescribable
relief
I touched down safely in Salt Lake
City and praised the Lord. Three flights had taken me from England, across the
Atlantic and almost the entire land mass of the United States of America. Eight
time zones in all. It was now night time and nearing the end of a very long and
tiring day.
Now, I was supposed to be met by a
friend, Nate, at SLC airport. I had met all my scheduled flights and collected
my luggage. Then I waited where I thought we were supposed to meet. Ten minutes
passed with no sign of Nate. I began to grow worried. I went to a nearby
payphone and called my mum in England. I must have sounded desperate by this
time! She told me she’d try and contact Nate to check where he is. I suddenly
felt homeless and helpless in a foreign country. There I was standing in an
airport over 8,000km away from home with two large suitcases wondering where I
was going to sleep that night. Waiting for a pick-up may seem a trivial matter,
but to this nineteen-year-old jetting the globe in solitary company, it was a
matter of life and death. Well, my despair was short-lived because Nate soon
arrived apologizing for being late. My relief was indescribable. I had
completed my lonely journey from Birmingham, England to Salt Lake City, USA on
a lengthy Tuesday 18th June, 2002.
Horrific
howling
The night of Tuesday 18th
June, 2002 was spent at Nate’s house.
Here I am checking in at the Provo Missionary Training Centre (MTC) the following afternoon. I look so young and inexperienced |
My
circumnavigation of the globe would continue just under 3 weeks later.
Here’s another picture of me shortly before leaving the MTC. A friend and I point to the next point of embarkation on our journey, the fantastic island city of Singapore |
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On Monday 8th July, 2002,
after nineteen days of training in Provo, I resumed my adventure with several
fellow-volunteers. It sure was a whole lot more exciting and reassuring to
finally be flying in the company of some friends. We took the short flight from
Salt Lake City to San Francisco, a major airport with a 3km-long runway,
standing as the hub for huge trans-Pacific air voyages.
An aerial view of San Francisco’s main airport |
From there we flew on a United
Airlines plane to Hong Kong. There was an extremely scary moment somewhere over
the Pacific Ocean when we encountered some severe turbulence. The plane was
rolling left and right, each wing in turn being forced up at 45 degree angles.
Matthew Lee, sitting beside me, spilt his orange juice all over his trousers
during the commotion. It would have been funny but for the horrific howling and
wailing of a Chinese-looking lady in the window row beside us. A male companion
was trying to calm her down but to no avail. It was like a scene from a movie,
but fortunately this lady’s screams were an isolated case. After a few minutes
of wild turbulence, the pilot made an obvious right turn and an increase in
altitude as the cries ceased and normal service was resumed.
It is difficult to catch up with the
pilots who navigate our flights. I have managed it just once in my life. I
would have liked to have thanked the pilot who skillfully controlled my flight
to Hong Kong.
The typical flight path from San Francisco to Hong Kong |
Immediately
felt at home
Matthew, my friend who unfortunately
spilt orange juice down his trousers 40,000 feet above the Pacific Ocean, was
having more problems at Hong Kong International Airport. He discovered that he
had given in his boarding pass to Singapore at San Francisco, so he and Jacob
Brown had to go off and explain the situation. We spent the next half an hour
looking for them around the airport only to find that they had already checked
in and were waiting for us.
Here I am at Hong Kong International Airport: |
The Hong Kong to Singapore flight was
turbulent in patches but not to the extent of our trans-Pacific experience.
Furthermore, this was the last leg of my circumnavigation of the world for
around two years.
An aerial view of Singapore’s Changi airport |
Arriving at Changi airport represented
the half-way mark. We got through immigration at Changi at around 1am local
time on Wednesday 10th July, 2002. I remember the balmy heat hitting
me like a brick wall when the doors to the night air opened. Warm at the dead
of night! We were tired and groggy when our Mission President, Joseph Flake
Boone, greeted us in the arrivals hall. He was dressed in a shirt and tie with
immaculately kept hair and had the warmest smile, welcoming yet conservative,
and I immediately felt right at home on the other side of the planet – for the
first time since I left England in June.
We were soon taken to our
accommodation for the night. I was to spend the next two years in volunteer
service briefly in Singapore, and more prominently in Peninsular Malaysia and
Borneo. The adventures, stories, heartaches, joys and personal growth I
experienced in those two years filled four volumes.
A map of my home for two years in South-east Asia |
Some of my friends who travelled with me from Salt Lake City to Singapore. L-R: Jacob Brown, Neal Solomon, Me, Micheal Hubbard, Matthew Lee: |
Leaving
my Asian home
The two halves of my round-the-world
journey were the slices of bread that held the much larger filling of two years
of volunteer service to the people of Malaysia and Singapore. The sandwich
wouldn’t be of any nutrition without that filling, and suffice it to say, it
was delicious beyond anything I had ever tasted.
Three friends accompanied me to
Singapore’s Changi airport on the night of Wednesday 23rd June,
2004. If I could, I would have gladly quit my circumnavigation of the world
right there in Singapore. Two years since arriving in South-east Asia, I did
not want to leave because I had fallen in love with the place, the people, the
food, everything. Malaysia and Singapore had captured my heart and I had never
felt more at home than where I was right then. I had gained a whole new circle
of beautiful friends in Petaling Jaya, Klang, Ipoh, Sitiawan, Kuching (all
Malaysia) and Singapore.
Two years ago, as I left England for
America, I was filled with a fear of flying alone into the unknown. But it was
even harder leaving my Asian home on this particular night.
My friends and I had a Burger King
meal at the airport and took photos together before my departure. It was the
first time in my life that I didn’t enjoy a Burger King. There was just an
empty feeling deep down in the pit of my stomach, more mental and emotional
than physical, and it ached. It ached and ached. It was similar to the
butterflies in the stomach associated with nervousness; slightly nauseous would
be the best way to describe it.
With a couple of friends shortly before my departure from Changi airport, Singapore: (L-R: Micheal Hubbard, Me, Jake Claus) |
I had accumulated a lot of stuff during my
stint in Asia and I was 30kg overweight in baggage. The airport was ready to
charge me 1,635 Singapore dollars! It was fortunate that I had already planned
a trip back to Singapore the following month with my family, so I was able to
leave one suitcase with my friend in Singapore and collect it the next month.
That was definitely a moment where I was thankful to have good friends around
and a family who had planned to come and see my Asian home. A wonderful piece
of good fortune, as many of my fellow-volunteers have never returned to this
part of the world.
So I rearranged my suitcases right
there in the airport and put all the important stuff in the one I was taking
with me.
When I reached the gate for departure,
I saw my plane waiting outside. Qantas Airlines. An absolute beast! What a
sight! The flight was slightly delayed so by the time of departure, it was
already after midnight. That would have consequences for the final leg of my
journey. The take-off was so smooth that I couldn’t feel it leaving the runway
– the same could be said of the landing in Frankfurt, Germany twelve hours
later. The smoothness of the flight and the pleasant company of the many Germans
on board unfortunately didn’t match my desire to be on it.
My
heart was left behind
Frankfurt airport in Germany was the most
difficult airport to get around that I experienced on my circumnavigation of
the globe. With no signage in English, it required asking people/airport staff
for directions. My delayed flight from Singapore had landed at 7am local time
and given me just 30 minutes until my connecting flight departed. There was no
way I was going to make it!
An aerial view of Frankfurt airport in Germany |
I managed to rearrange my journey back to
England for the next flight at 11am. It gave me plenty of time to find my way
around the German labyrinth. I also called Birmingham International Airport and
left a message for my mum, Joanna, who would be waiting there wondering why I
wasn’t on my scheduled flight.
I did bump into a lovely family from
Montana at Frankfurt airport (see picture below) and discovered that we
belonged to the same church, albeit in different countries. It’s nice when that
happens!
We had to walk from our departure gate to
the airplane – myself and around two dozen others. The walk seemed endless.
Finally we arrived at a tiny propeller plane and my heart sank.
My head was at an angle as I squeezed
into the cabin in my seat. A little cramped for my liking but it was going to
get me home. During the ascent I could dizzyingly feel the plane moving up
through all the altitude levels which made my head throb each time. The air
stewardess asked me if I wanted an orange juice. Afraid of bringing it straight
back up, I politely passed!
After a short flight I touched down
where I started two years ago – Birmingham International Airport. I was
genuinely happy to see my mum again, yet I was also authentically dejected to
be in England. It was one of the weirdest feelings I’ve ever experienced. To
have spent two years in the exclusive service of others and to have loved every
minute of that time, then two flights later to have been stripped bare of all
the beautiful duties of that work was a pill that I was trying to swallow but
having trouble getting it down my throat. I didn’t know whether to smile or
sob. I think I ended up doing something rather boring in between.
The cold chill when alighting the small
British Airways propeller plane was a harsh reminder that the warm tropical
climate I had so loved was now a world away, and I have to report that during
my circumnavigation of the world, my heart was left behind in South-east Asia.
Oh my goodness, this pulls at my heart strings Duncan. How I cried when you left. And cried. And cried. And cried. For ten hours straight. I cried every day for a year because I missed your physical presence so much. I knew you were doing what you were destined to do and I was pleased about that but I never realised what a wrench it would be for me. I knew about three months into your missionary service that you were in love with Malaysia. I had an inkling then that I'd lost you forever to that land, so far away, that we never knew about before 2002.
ReplyDeleteI knew that coming "home" for you in 2004 was much harder than leaving home two years earlier. I felt the pain of your loss and I knew you wouldn't stay in England for long.
It was fabulous to make that journey back with you in August of 2004. Seeing how everyone loved you so much confirmed to me that Malaysia was your future. And indeed it has become your future. I do still miss your physical presence but visiting periodically is so exciting.
November cannot come soon enough for me to welcome you back home, albeit for a short time.
I love you Duncan. I always have and I always will.
What a great memory post.
ReplyDeleteA journey not be forgotten.
ReplyDeleteReally enjoyed reading your story Duncan and j'adore your Mum's comment above. I know exactly how she feels as my son and family live in Sydney.. Once you've found your place in the world that's it, nowhere else feels lime home :)
ReplyDeleteWhat a story!
ReplyDeleteGreat post! Glad you shared this adventure.
ReplyDeleteI am glad you went on a mission. If not, there won't be US! Hihi love you babe!
ReplyDeleteNice one Duncan, Love the story so far and of course I know you happy now with your lovely family in Kuantan.
ReplyDeleteAlthough I have not been on here much I have always followed you and done many replies via the apps but not sure if they show up with you.
But thanks for sharing and how about that brother of yours. you were like book ends so alike..
Regards your mate John in Johor Bahru.....